• What To Do When Trying Harder Isn’t Working

    When I was 19, I started dating a 37-year-old man. When I met his best female friend for the first time, over dinner at the late Angelica Kitchen in the East Village, we had a great time, all laughing and getting along. A few days later he told me that she said I seemed like […]

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  • The Dark Side of Feminism and Girl Boss Culture

    I was sitting at a party and the tradwife trend came up. Immediate horror and disapproval erupted throughout the group – except for me. The only question that popped into my mind was, “Is it her choice?” What’s a tradwife? A tradwife – short for traditional wife – is a woman who chooses to be […]

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  • How To Deal With Conflicting Emotions

    On the most idyllic day, I was also moving through a lot of stickiness. The storm before the calm, though weather-wise it was the calm before the storm, with Tuesday bringing buckets of rain. Always makes me laugh, because what we see from the outside is just a sliver. I don’t think social media always […]

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