• The Power of Letting Something Suck

    Let it suck. That thing you really want to change, but have been minimizing, modifying, or justifying… … let it suck.  We’re so quick to whitewash everything with positivity. Especially self-aware, spiritual people who are always seeking growth. We’re either taught or mistakenly pick up that all our thoughts and experiences need to be colored […]

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  • What To Do When Trying Harder Isn’t Working

    When I was 19, I started dating a 37-year-old man. When I met his best female friend for the first time, over dinner at the late Angelica Kitchen in the East Village, we had a great time, all laughing and getting along. A few days later he told me that she said I seemed like […]

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  • The Dark Side of Feminism and Girl Boss Culture

    I was sitting at a party and the tradwife trend came up. Immediate horror and disapproval erupted throughout the group – except for me. The only question that popped into my mind was, “Is it her choice?” What’s a tradwife? A tradwife – short for traditional wife – is a woman who chooses to be […]

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